On Friday, a name from undergrad came up because KL was wondering whether to invite her to invite her to a wedding or not. Thinking not since she didn't invite KL.

For some reason, I ended up looking her up, found her blog and read all the entries. I really underestimated her. I always thought she was strange, mainly because of her dress and the fact that she seemed to appear at the oddest of times out of the middle of nowhere. There was always that sense that she was really trying a bit too hard to get know me, more than a friend. Definitely more than just someone you just met. If someone tries that hard, I do question their motivation and if it's something I can't or not interested in, best I left them on their own.

Anyhow I saw her for the first time in years a year ago, pregnant and married, but still looking the same - no, not that other person. Anyhow this girl seems a lot like me in a lot of ways, particularly her life challenges. Which is why I guess I feel I severely underestimated her. I suppose I could have been nicer to her but than if she was after what was not impossible, perhaps it was the best as it was for all the others.